RAW....NO GREASE!!!!

Ok, so I've been reading every guys update on the Kelis Vs. Nas thing. You know the $55,000 Nas is suppose to pay every month for the next 18 years. I must first apologize for what I'm about to say but DAMN MA WHY IT GOTTA BE LIKE THAT!!!! I know there were some indiscretion on his part so you say, but taking a man to the cleaners like that is not going to stop the hurt! It's not going to fill that void you might have! I understand the "Make Him Pay" mentality but what does it do for that child? He will grow to be a man won't he? And whose to say he doesn't make the same mistake his Daddy did? Will you side with him (your blood) or the woman? Real talk! Will you tell her "Take him for all that he's got baby"! Or will you say "Look he made a mistake or two or even three, you might not forgive but he's only Human". Have you even thought to yourself that he might not be able to pay that amount for the next 18 years? What then? Where do we as women draw the line? Being a woman scorned can bring out the complete B*TCH in us. And being a woman myself I can say that that part of us is completely irrational and makes decisions based on our emotional state only. Now if you can say otherwise, then that my dear would be considered a plan and if that's the case that would make you as bad as the other Gold digging B*tches that sleep with celebs just to get knocked up and take them for all they have! Don't get me wrong now I Love her music just like so many others. But being the woman that I am I just can't help but wonder why? I mean that was straight RAW NO GREASE!


What do you think? Would you do the same thing? Or would you see the bigger picture? Seriously.
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LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE!!!

The last four days of my life as been one of inspiration and empowerment. It took me out of my comfort zone and bought to a place that I have never been before. You see we as women often time hear about other woman going through traumatic experiences of abuse and think to ourselves how bad it must have been for that person/persons to have experienced that. Well I had the opportunity to come face to face with some of the survivors of such experiences. Not in the way some of you might think. I was blessed to be apart of something that is proactive and to train as an Instructor.. R.A.D (Rape Aggression Defense System). A system that gives woman the knowledge and skill to protect themselves. I mean I don't know about you but I know there are a lot of woman in the world wondering if.. What if? What would/can I do if I were put a situation where my safety was in jeopardy? The R.A.D. Systems program pulled out all the stops and gear to make it real for us. Even had huge men padded up as Aggressors (bad guys) for us to use the skills and knowledge we'd just learned to the test. And it worked! I've never seen so many woman with one main goal and determined to achieve it! That goal "I Will Survive"! It was amazing!!!

Oh and by the way my daughter will be attending R.A.D for Kids next year because it's never to early to teach her how to ensure her safety. There are too many parents not preparing there children, especially their daughters for the real world!
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The Pursuit of WHAT??

Ok so I never really understood why we women do certain things to attract until of course I was of age, but now that a am a mature female somethings we do still boggle my mind! I mean whether it's out shoe game or our wardrobe, it's almost always to impress the opposite sex. I've woman walking or trying to walk in stillettos they know they haven't learned the balance for.. Or even the pointed toes (ya'll know what I'm talking about) that they know damn well their feet are too WIDE to fit in and by the end of the night are slung across their shoulders. I'm not saying not to be sexy with whatever you wear.. Just make sure that it doesn't end up making you look like a HOT MESS in the process. ;-)

I'm just sayn....



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The Adventures of Don Ghotti & Don Pitts - The Video Vol. 1

This Video accounts the memoirs of two alter egos DON GHOTTI & DON PITTS both embodied in the same human vessel. DON GHOTTI lives the lifestyle of a ROCK STAR while branding his Label (Felicitous)

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Inspired!!

I've seen what I needed to see.. Now I count my blessing 1 by 1 never forgetting from where they've come. 2morrows not promised and 2day will pass. So I will live each 1 as if it's my last...

This is the inspiration that Michael Jackson has given me. Even though I didn't know him personally, still was embedded in my heart since age 8 when I would throw on my sequin glove, high water pants, penny loafers and zippered leather jacket, singing and dancing for any1 who would pay attention. Lol! Forever in my heart will he be and I know that there are many who feel the same.
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TwitterNation

If you don't know already Twitter is one of the most effective social media tools in networking. I can truly say that no matter the industry you can make connections on every level. In my Twitter experience thus far I have met quite a few people who have been a major influence in my life and business by just reading their updates. Even a few that have truly touched my heart.

What has your Twitter experience been like? Good or Bad.

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